Piano Bar, Andy.

“We’ll continue to make everybody’s world a bit brighter. Besides, it’s a way of keeping us sane and it keeps the routine going. It’s been heart-warming to see people on Facebook getting on board, singing around the TV or wherever and messaging in their requests.” Andy Pobjoy tells us about the Piano Bar live streams which can be found on their @pianobargeelong facebook page. “We plan to go live at 7.30pm, 6 nights a week. We couldn’t help ourselves, Shandelle and I even did a surprise performance on Monday as well.

Andy Pobjoy

“We plan to mix it up. Jack Gatto (Elivs) was live with us on Wednesday night. You can check our FB page to see who’ll be on. It’s been great seeing people commenting. Watch this space, we’ll all come out the other side stronger and better.

“This situation is forcing everyone to stop; spend more time with family, get fit, practice an instrument, learn a new skill. Aaron and I are workaholics but like everyone else, this is forcing us to stop.

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Fostering, Gerard.

“My son’s and my relationship started when he moved in next door. He was 3 and in short term foster care. We bonded. He’s now 21 and living the dream … he’s been the head deckhand on a super yacht based in the Mediterranean, sailing off to the Caribbean for the European winter. He worries that he is not taking life seriously enough. All the adults around him say ‘go with the flow, mate.’


“I’m in my early 60s and have a job I love, close friends, a great family and I live in the Greater Geelong community that is geographically beautiful, socially aware and unbelievably connected. I feel like I have influence and can make a difference. My life has love and meaning.

“I bonded with Gerard when I was in my early 40’s, single and happy with my life. I had always assumed I would have children. Gerard was 3 about to turn 4 and his life was marked by the usual child protection story of instability. He’d already had 30 short term foster care placements. His parents weren’t and aren’t bad people – things just conspired against them.

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Forbidden Love, Hadeel.

Forbidden love. A gorgeous young 17-year-old and 18-year-old fell in love over the internet. They met and got to know each other, their love blossomed and they vowed to get married. However, there was one serious, dangerous problem, they lived in Iraq and were from two different religions. A crime punishable by death. “We just wanted to be together and that was very powerful. I can’t believe it, but after years, we made it happen.” I’m interviewing the beautiful and determined Hadeel.

Hadeel, Forbidden Love

“Our families were very open-minded and kind. They didn’t object to us marrying but feared for our lives. Others in the same situation had lost their lives. You see our religion is printed on our ID cards and we have no say in it, it is related to what our great, great grandfathers’ religion was. Our families told us, if we really wanted to get married, we’d have to leave Iraq.

“We thought about what we’d been told but were so determined to be together. We had to finish our university courses first. I studied English Language and Literature. Suroor studied architecture. After graduating we got jobs and saved madly.

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It began with Toby.

He was a Maltese/Shiatsu terrier, left to us in a friend’s will. In fact, we were his third owners — he was rescued twice, once from people who didn’t want him and separated secondly by the death of his previous owner. He was a character; highly intelligent, grumpy, and just loved Russell above all things and all people. He tolerated me but he trusted me, and he knew better than to upset me because I was the one who walked him most. Toby took ill while we were overseas; some good friends kept him going but he was suddenly full of cysts and we held him while our vet sent him to the Big Kennel in the sky. We had to stop the car because we cried so much, the house was empty, the various daily routines now non-existent. We swore we’d never have another dog, so difficult was the grieving process for us both. As a couple, he’d become our child, and we decided no more animals.


At the time I was waiting for a back operation, not at all well, but the vacuum left in our home was too much for me to bear. So, I decided to pay a visit to GAWS — Geelong Animal Welfare Society; I decided it wouldn’t do any harm, I’d just have a look at what was available, then tell Russell in case we changed our mind about future dog ownership. I thought a smaller dog would be sensible with my then physical affliction, but there was virtually nothing available. I walked over to the pens which accommodated the larger dogs, and suddenly in the second pen I felt a pair of eyes boring into me. When we were farmers, we bred Kelpies, and this was a keen, intelligent Kelpie head, except he was jet black. His rear portion was something else — Labrador! He turned away from me and began pounding on the door at the rear of his cage, and after a cursory inspection and payment he was ours.

Jenkins chose me! He’d been wandering the streets of Geelong — he’d clearly been dumped there; we think he’d been owned by a senior couple who were too unwell to care for him. He was three years old.

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From Music into Silence, podcast.

We’re SO excited because we’ve produced our first of many podcasts. We chose Peter Roberts’ story because his inspirational film, From Music into Silence, will be back in Geelong soon.

Peter is a music thanatologist, that’s someone who is trained to play music to people when they are dying. He’s also played for premature babies and others in need. Listen in to find out more. Soundcloud is free, enjoy and please share!


Luke Massey.

Today I had the absolute pleasure of sitting and chatting with a humble, inspirational, caring gem of a man- Mr Luke Massey.

There are many facets to Luke and his many talents- but for this chat, we are going to focus on his ‘can do’ attitude to give time and laughter to a worthy group of families, who are dealing with brain cancer.

Luke Massey

Through the not-for-profit organisation, Peace of Mind Foundation, and Humans in Geelong’s Jacqui Bennett, Luke was approached about 2 years ago to join a Pamper Day where he was asked to quietly play guitar and sing whilst 30 or so women were being pampered, spoilt and ‘dolled up ‘so they could go out for the night and gain a sense of normality back into their lives’.

Luke had the opportunity to listen to a Guest Speaker, watch the transformations each pampered woman went through and learn more about what these beautiful women face.  He got to chat to some of the women where they shared their stories linking them together on similar journeys.  He thoroughly enjoyed his time there.

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Geelong Mosque Open Day, 2020.

We are all invited to attend the Geelong Mosque Open Day on this Sunday 15th March from 10-4pm. There will be a special dua (prayers) for bushfire victims and the victims of the Christchurch tragedy, at 1pm. It is a year since thousands of people went along to the open day to stand in unity with our Muslim friends. Please share that we are all invited.

Geelong Mosque Open Day 2020 Flyer (2)