“Tell me your story.” That’s the first step in the helping process provided by one generous soul, who has requested to remain anonymous and shall be referred to as John. He’s English by birth but became Australian by choice when he arrived in 1986. Because of his struggles with alcohol, John shares his perspective on gaining sobriety. This partly involves acting as a sponsor for Alcoholics Anonymous. AA’s goals, as written in the preamble, involve deflating the addict’s ego and “getting honest”. Being “anonymous” isn’t about shame but with humility and sacrificial living. John helps people who struggle with drinking, specifically in prisons and hospitals, by talking with them and listening to their stories in a non-judgmental environment.

Spirituality is an important part of John’s life, beginning with the Christian-founded AA and as a member of Moolap and Barrabool Baptist Church for years. One day after service, John was asked for advice by a family with a son/daughter who had an addiction and from then, he decided to help other families. He began working with OneCare in Geelong West developing a pilot program of recovery groups, who were featured on Humans in Geelong previously. The recovery groups provide a safe environment for attendees where they can be vulnerable about their experiences. OneCare also provides community meals, counselling and mentoring.








